Life is Enigma.. Part 1

Well... Everybody proceeds life with some aims and goals to achieve. We work hard to reach our goal managing all obstacles. But how much ever we struggle and long to fulfill what we aim, its fate that decides whether you deserve it or not. I have asked so many times myself whether it is LUCK or HARDWORK that decides what we deserve? I feel nothing comes to you without hardwork or it is not everything happened is because of luck. When an individual enjoys what he/she gets it doesn't mean he/she got simply because of their luck.I feel you get that luck since in some way you deserve what you got and god granted it since he felt it is best for you. I have crossed situations and because of which I stood infront of god and argued like

I have worked hard for it.. but why am deceived and not deserved.........??

          There are scenarios where you loose chances though you were hardworking, capable and sincere. Because of agony that time we will expel to god that he has done injustice to us since our human mind is created in a such a way that we cant enjoy the flavor of failure. It is said God gives you what is best for you ...But IS IT THE SAME GOD TO CREATE A DESIRE/WISH IN OUR HEART THAT WE HAVE TO GET IT AND DISAPPOINT US LATER.....??. WHY CANT GOD GIVE AIMS and DREAMS THAT HE FEELS IS BEST FOR US AND HE CAN GRANT TO US rather than inoculating wishes in our heart that he cant fulfill ? Is it all because of Eve having that apple? I know I sound funny. But this is Enigma of Life...

           There is another concept called Accept life as it comes..Our heart fights to accept/get used to what we get than what we wish. So,cant we simply sit without wishes to accept life as it comes rather than working hard for what we wish and disappoint if its not fulfilled? This option is applicable when you have no expectation either for you or for people around you. It best suits for saints and not us since we are bond to family/love and have responsibilities. 

            Its always better to aim, work hard for it to your best and leave it to God. If we succeed lets Enjoy praising Lord, our luck and talent. If we fail, lets develop a mentality to Enjoy the experience we have gained, trouble shoot, do better in what we got and see how to RAISE AGAIN from the place we fall. Its difficult to train our mind to have that mentality instead of regretting lot. One thing I firmly believe is SITUATIONS ARE NEVER PERMANENT. The wheel have to rotate down to come up and run the vehicle. Same is our life. You have to go down to come up in life. Hence god gives us disappointments, failures so that he makes you more stronger with more passion to win next time. I hope there is no man who has ever tasted success because I repeat again that I firmly believe Change is life and situations keep changing irrespective of Fate/luck/God/Hardwork. So better is to develop maturity to take things lighter during failures but find ways faster for success without bothering of luck vs Hardwork. 

                  All the very best for all you people to develop a mentality to enjoy good or bad adventures of life without never giving up your hardwork and sincerity. Though we succeed or fail lets have one motto to make people around us happy.