WE come across so many people in our life and all those whom we meet will not stay close to your heart. Though we meet some people everyday even for years we don't mind to get close to them. We will start liking some people the moment we come across and I have heard of falling in love at very first sight. Love at first sight - possible ??? I don't think we can fall in love with a stranger. May be I am wrong. But what I was wondering, among hundred we met, why we are very close and comfortable with few?? What makes us to create a strong friendship bonds with a particular person among many in your circle?? In fact all are humans..This is Engima!!
But there are people who try to build relationship with another person in order to get help from them or just to make sure they have people around them for their help. Framing a relationship with another to satisfy our needs and to ensure we are not alone to overcome an insecure feeling will not really help a relationship to last longer. U are indeed becoming dependent !! I would say the so called framed relationship can never be an loyal one with true feelings and affection. We could see people when they study in college or work in a particular place will be close for three or four years and once they come out of that place its pathetic they bid bye not only to the institute but also to their so claimed "framed friends".
But there are people who try to build relationship with another person in order to get help from them or just to make sure they have people around them for their help. Framing a relationship with another to satisfy our needs and to ensure we are not alone to overcome an insecure feeling will not really help a relationship to last longer. U are indeed becoming dependent !! I would say the so called framed relationship can never be an loyal one with true feelings and affection. We could see people when they study in college or work in a particular place will be close for three or four years and once they come out of that place its pathetic they bid bye not only to the institute but also to their so claimed "framed friends".
We can't decide our family or choose your mom and dad. But God has given ultimate rights to choose our "Friends". A relationship has to bloom day by day between two individuals, without any expectations indeed with true love and care without ego. We should always take time to understand each other before getting into any kind of relationship. Presently the art of differentiating the "real ones" from the "fake ones" is essential for everybody to dwell on this planet, because very few people are bonded to true friendship, love and sincerity. Most of the people just please people for their use, utilize them to an extent and jump to another.
I feel great about "Karnan" in Mahabharatha and adore his friendship for "Thuriyothanan". He has been so loyal to his friend for helping him to not loose his dignity. He fought against his own brothers and lost his life for the sake of Friendship. How many people at present can be with this same kind of gratitude and loyalty towards their relationships?? People change, will change depending on their situations and needs. How much ever sweet and smart they act, surely one day their actions would rip their mask and you could understand and stop their bipolar act. When we come across the true nature of people around us, we may feel bad and our mind will recall all those help and adjustments we have done for them. Just relax.. and don't worry. This is one best lesson we learnt to analyze and permit people into your life.
In this world, its very rare to find someone true, someone who can understand you and someone who can form a strong covalent bond like relationship with you. If you find one, you are indeed very lucky and never ever leave them for any reason. Misunderstanding and small fights comes in every relationships and its all about how you adjust, and deal small, small problems in a matured way. If you find a person very true towards you, then never hesitate to do anything for them, be the first to say sorry, give up, don't expect and the most important thing, give some space around them. One of my best friend always says, " what you give in a relationship, you will get back the same thing". Yes, be true, give your 100% and you could see the liveliness in any relationship. Don't pick the stones busily since you can find them easily. Wait with patience to find a Diamond !!
I feel great about "Karnan" in Mahabharatha and adore his friendship for "Thuriyothanan". He has been so loyal to his friend for helping him to not loose his dignity. He fought against his own brothers and lost his life for the sake of Friendship. How many people at present can be with this same kind of gratitude and loyalty towards their relationships?? People change, will change depending on their situations and needs. How much ever sweet and smart they act, surely one day their actions would rip their mask and you could understand and stop their bipolar act. When we come across the true nature of people around us, we may feel bad and our mind will recall all those help and adjustments we have done for them. Just relax.. and don't worry. This is one best lesson we learnt to analyze and permit people into your life.
In this world, its very rare to find someone true, someone who can understand you and someone who can form a strong covalent bond like relationship with you. If you find one, you are indeed very lucky and never ever leave them for any reason. Misunderstanding and small fights comes in every relationships and its all about how you adjust, and deal small, small problems in a matured way. If you find a person very true towards you, then never hesitate to do anything for them, be the first to say sorry, give up, don't expect and the most important thing, give some space around them. One of my best friend always says, " what you give in a relationship, you will get back the same thing". Yes, be true, give your 100% and you could see the liveliness in any relationship. Don't pick the stones busily since you can find them easily. Wait with patience to find a Diamond !!
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